What do girls want?

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golfer951 Posts: 8 Joined: 2002/09/14	2002/09/24, 08:05 PM Hey i'm a 18yr old guy, now alot of girls will say personality is what counts, but what first attracts girls to guys? Like what part of a guys body? arms, chest, abs....is there a specific thing? I'm a skinny guy,(5'11" 145lbs) good personality and everything, funny, your all around nice guy, but i can't seem to get girls to like me more than friends. So lately (last 2 months) i've been working out, but i'm still a skinny guy, what areas should i focus on so a girl will look my way and let me show her what a good guy i really am? -Skinny Guy

SevMAN Posts: 2 Joined: 2002/11/13	2002/11/14, 03:39 PM there is no answer to that... no one knows what girls really want
Xphobicas Posts: 98 Joined: 2002/09/19	2002/11/15, 10:49 AM Golfer get a life.What girls don't want are loser guys who ask what girls want.
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2002/11/15, 01:45 PM Whoa! lol
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2002/11/15, 05:05 PM eh? -------------- To change it, or to create it, simply train it! Ivan
rev8ball Posts: 3,081 Joined: 2001/12/27	2002/11/15, 05:27 PM Let's try to keep this semi-civil, okay everyone? -------------- Michael "Trample the weak; hurdle the dead!"
Lumina20 Posts: 966 Joined: 2001/10/31	2002/11/16, 01:53 AM I don't think golfer's been around anyways...
lewdog_55 Posts: 383 Joined: 2002/01/23	2002/11/16, 10:56 AM He posted this in September and someone just replied to in in November.
mackfactor Posts: 766 Joined: 2002/10/17	2002/11/19, 05:40 PM Good luck, kid. -------------- "Don't follow leaders and watch your parking meters!" -- Bob Dylan
lil_abster Posts: 8 Joined: 2003/01/02	2003/01/02, 06:06 PM Who cares what they want? Just give it time. You'll eventually find somebody who's right for you.
Moonaria Posts: 28 Joined: 2003/01/12	2003/01/14, 12:22 AM Personally Golfer I go for tall skinny guys with an all over toned look. But you could have the exact body type I'm looking for and without personality I just wouldn't be interested. abster is right, don't worry about it. If your gonna work out and build up do it for you and be patient. Eventually you'll find some one who will appriciate all of you, not just your body. Michelle
juru Posts: 1 Joined: 2003/01/29	2003/01/30, 06:37 PM HEY JUST CHILL SOMETIMES IS BETTER TO HAVE A FRIEND . WHY YOU WANT TO COMPLICATE YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW GO OUT AND HAVE SOME FUN WITH SOME FRIENDS AND WHAT GIRLS LIKES? AS FOR MYSELF TALL SKINNY GUYS AND A GOOD ASS DO IT ALL . OF COURSES SOME FUN GIRLS SOMETIMES LIKE TO DO WHAT BOYS DO SO JUST KEEP WORK OUT AND GOOD LUCK . JUST REMEMBER RELAX IS NO BIG DEAL
cutieabs Posts: 9 Joined: 2003/01/30	2003/02/15, 03:21 AM girls "LOVE" when a guy really takes care of themself..like..if you are always "fresh-out-of-the-shower-lookin"..u know wht i'm sayin??..we hate guys that look like they just got out of bed..that's a big "NO NO"...we also like guys w/ confidence..that's the best attraction..even though the girl is in charge of the relationship, we want the guy to stand up for himself sometimes..we think it's cute AND sexy!
waiting4heaven Posts: 4 Joined: 2003/02/16	2003/02/16, 10:15 PM Hey golfer, I going to be honest, a guy's looks is what I see first, but then it definitly goes to the personality. I guess what I look at is what he looks like overall. I am not trying to say the guy has to like work out 6 days a week or anything like that but just someone who is healthy looking. a 6-pack helps too. LOL. Ashley
angel5 Posts: 9 Joined: 2003/02/25	2003/02/25, 03:17 PM ..... I would have to say that initially....(when you first meet someone)...it's not just about the way they look physically....but their entire charisma... how they carry themselves.....their body language......conversation...... if you meet someone and totally click, you know it..... and things just progress..... but you have to be comfortable enough with yourself and confident enough to be able to be comfortable in situations like that....... .... -------------- ~IT IS BETTER TO BE HATED FOR WHO YOU ARE THAN LOVED FOR WHO YOU ARE NOT~
jugirl Posts: 7 Joined: 2003/03/06	2003/03/18, 09:43 AM I've always been attracted to short stocky guys, but my sister has always been attracted to tall skinny guys so I say if you're happy with yourself some girl will come along who thinks you're the cat's meow, too. I also agree with Angel 5 about the Charisma thing, because Vin Diesel is not good looking in the face, yes he has an awesome bod, but he's got the Charisma. I just got out a four year relationship and being single is great, so don't rush into getting a girlfriend. Just enjoy getting to know yourself.
mattwilson Posts: 54 Joined: 2003/02/27	2003/03/28, 03:57 AM After I was dating my fiancee, I asked her what about me got her attention. She used to sit behind me in my senior yr of High School. She told me that my back was one of her favorite features. She also enjoyed to touch and look at the six-pack that I had those few years back. The last thing she said that turned her on to me was my voice???? Apparently she thinks a deep voice is sexy. Good luck. -------------- Pain is weakness leaving the body
timbaland Posts: 192 Joined: 2002/12/23	2003/03/29, 03:12 AM I was talking to one of my friends a little bit ago about this. She told me that girls aren't into looks as much as guys are. She likes clean-shaven guys, nicely dressed (clothes are tidy not all wrinkled), she looks at guys butts (main body part she notices), nice smelling, basically just clean. I originally was telling her how my friend was such a player, but he wasn't even a good looking guy. She asked is he hella outgoing, like the center of attention at parties. He is. Oh and on a side note, I saw cutieabs post about the fresh out of the shower look. I've wanted that look but couldn't ever find a gel, mousse, or hairspray that gave that look. I've put them on with my hair wet too. Can someone who knows how to get that look please post the brand of gel, hairspray, or mousse they use. Thanks.
bemister Posts: 6 Joined: 2003/03/31	2003/04/01, 10:23 PM Most girls like boys who are not ugly. But some girls like boys who are ugly, just not as many as those who like boys that are not ugly. And then there are those girls who like other girls. So you see, it just depends on what girl you want to like you. If you are going for any girl at all go with the averages and be not ugly. If you are going for a particular girl, find out what she likes and be that, whether it's not ugly, ugly, or another girl.
Fiveseven61 Posts: 19 Joined: 2003/03/31	2003/04/03, 12:34 AM First of all a girl looks for personality the most. But the first they look is at your body. Build up ur chest, arms and shoulders then yous gona be a big guy. Well for me I like girls with buttocks, tits, face, body, and personality. if the lady mean look for another.
skinnyrobin Posts: 224 Joined: 2002/05/10	2003/04/03, 02:19 AM ============ Quoting from fiveseven61: Well for me I like girls with buttocks, tits, face, body, and personality. ============= i think everyone does bro-it would be pretty freaky if she didn't have a face and body lol
dpking44 Posts: 470 Joined: 2002/08/07	2003/04/03, 07:20 AM That's a bit disrespectful fiveseven61. There's a much better way of stating that. Oh well.
dahayz Posts: 794 Joined: 2002/05/08	2003/04/03, 08:45 AM Hey, some people just don't have manners anymore.
Fiveseven61 Posts: 19 Joined: 2003/03/31	2003/04/03, 07:37 PM ok my bad my bad.
sassysr03 Posts: 18 Joined: 2003/04/06	2003/04/06, 01:42 AM i agree with angel5...just be yourself and try to be confident in yourself and dont worry what other people think so much. good luck to you and god bless. Sarah
newmaciel Posts: 13 Joined: 2003/04/02	2003/04/07, 05:57 PM Your cute,young and your interests and goals sound like they're keeping you busy.Your a freshman in collage-give it your all.The girls will come to you.You sound very sweet.'Getting' someone to like you would be a mistake.I can't say it enuf.Be yourself,confident in your self, and set your goals,romance will follow in due time.(confidence in self is so hot,it can make the most un-attractive skinniest or largest person attractive)
wamo25 Posts: 25 Joined: 2002/10/01	2003/04/15, 01:28 AM Everybody has there lonely times. Dont sweat it before you know you will be with someone.
atomic327 Posts: 2 Joined: 2003/04/01	2003/04/16, 03:42 AM sorry to say, but a LOT of girls, even tho they don't admit it, want easy access to $$$$$$$$$$, or at least dropdead looks to compensate sounds lame, i know, but after 10 yrs on the scene.... trick is to find the ones that don't want that and want you for the way you are.
pleyroy Posts: 42 Joined: 2002/06/19	2003/04/22, 07:36 PM Screw the one area. Go for an over-all mass program, get huge and you can't go wrong! ...remember, smoke FAT joints b4 and after workouts and you can accomlish your goals easily! -------------- My family thinks I'm on steroids... :D
skinnyrobin Posts: 224 Joined: 2002/05/10	2003/04/23, 05:21 AM you can also accomplish your goals without taking drugs
Lonegirl Posts: 446 Joined: 2002/11/13	2003/04/23, 06:46 AM A friend! A person you can easily talk to. Someone fun. Trust me being a best friend and confident is a good thing! (My hubby and I have been together since we were 16 -14 years...and this year will be our 10th anniversary) If you can't have fun and joke around with them...do you really want to be with them?
VegetarianBoy Posts: 19 Joined: 2003/04/21	2003/04/30, 04:41 PM Wear makeup. It works for me. (Yes, I'm a guy.) Seriously though, girls don't care that much. As long as you're comfortable with your body, girls will be too. And they'll be attracted by your confidence. And a 6-pack isn't necessary at all. I know plenty of girls who dig a little (keyword little) tummy.
BIGGIN Posts: 130 Joined: 2003/04/30	2003/04/30, 04:52 PM dont worry aout it man. the grls will coe in time. just jke tyur workout and ink about other things. they will come. im in the samr boat as u so iknow how u feel. ts goin to be hard but just move on.
Jankxe Posts: 9 Joined: 2003/07/23	2003/07/23, 10:03 PM okay, this has always worked. As soon as you stop LOOKING for the right person.. the right person always shows up. So just be yourself and do your own thing and she will come to you! but if you're asking about what body part, it is different with every girl. personally, i love toned, not huge, but muscular arms. and of course, there's always the nice ass :) -JaMie-
fireloard Posts: 665 Joined: 2001/03/27	2003/07/24, 08:55 PM This post (and yes I know i'm doing exactly what i'm ranting about) keeps getting bumped up even though its from last year. I wonder if golfer even comes to this site anymore to read this stuff. Maybe its good advice for anything else that may stumble across it. I think most of this probably sums up to relax, be yourself, and try to have a good time.
lady_helena Posts: 6 Joined: 2003/07/30	2003/07/31, 12:15 AM I think its different for everyone ... everyone has their own preferences ... but you should be working on making your body look better for YOU not for some girl ... you will be more confident in yourself and will attract people by your presence instead of by your looks if you just believe in yourself ... you don't want someone who wants you for your looks anyways - honestly there is no one answer to your question
liesbeneath Posts: 40 Joined: 2003/06/26	2003/07/31, 05:04 PM I agree with helena. It's more about presence then actual looks. A good disposition is most attractive!
oh_rob Posts: 29 Joined: 2003/11/26	2003/11/27, 03:33 PM All girls are different how can you answer that guestion? I know being around them and being nice and stuff helps but its not nessisarily gonna get them to like you. You just have to relax, if it happens it happens.
KeithAVH Posts: 19 Joined: 2003/10/20	2003/11/30, 01:05 AM LoL...If I knew the answer to this question, I would be rich... FILTHY RICH!
nateminger Posts: 1 Joined: 2004/03/15	2004/03/15, 05:21 AM i am doing a project in one of my GCSE classes and i need some info. on girls aerobic excersise can anyone help?:dumbbell:
sunny333s Posts: 9 Joined: 2004/03/07	2004/03/16, 05:27 PM Golfer, What really attracts me to a guy is his smile, rather than his body. Muscle and great abs are impressive, but it's just eye candy to me. Most importantly, he has to be intelligent and respectful. Sunny
davidov Posts: 95 Joined: 2002/10/24	2004/03/21, 02:45 PM In the 2 years since he asked this question he may have found the solution.
Speeder Posts: 226 Joined: 2003/03/14	2004/03/22, 05:38 AM ME...they all want me :D..haha Of course I am joking :P
Jdelts Posts: 1,218 Joined: 2003/10/19	2004/03/22, 02:20 PM This is a post from 2 YEARS AGO!!!
dahayz Posts: 794 Joined: 2002/05/08	2004/03/22, 02:28 PM Yeah, and it just keeps on goin. I mean, I posted a comment on this in April of last year!
My_Sunshine64 Posts: 48 Joined: 2004/04/29	2004/04/29, 04:48 PM i personally want sex, money, and good looks
perfectcell50 Posts: 2 Joined: 2004/02/25	2004/05/03, 08:12 PM I dont know golfer..it may be in your charisma as they all say, you may be a brad pitt but if you r shy.....you are screwed. Girls dont want to fight for their men, they want their man to fight for them.....think about that :big_smile:
jask Posts: 36 Joined: 2004/05/04	2004/05/11, 03:27 PM all girls want different things. everyone's different and likes/dislikes certain things. i usually go for super tall super skinny guys. but i'm a sucker for the abs (on and the dip, i think its called "The V" do you know what i'm talking about). but first of all, the dude has to be nice. not pussy nice (that's just pathetic, where they follow you around like a dog jeez, gets annoying), just regular guy nice (treats me well, gentlemen-like, respectful). he could be the hottest guy in the world but if he's an asshole i wouldnt give him the time of day.
TRad Posts: 94 Joined: 2004/01/03	2004/05/11, 11:20 PM girls want me.
Grunt_82 Posts: 71 Joined: 2004/03/22	2004/05/12, 03:01 AM If you want a shallow girl who you will just "have fun" with, then work out hardcore and get buff. If you want a real girl that will actually like you for you who are, just keep doing what you are doing. If you want to work out to better yourself, then good. But if you do it for a possible girl that doesn't currently exist, then you are doing it for the wrong reason. I don't think that working out is what you should be focusing on, maybe your values should be looked at first.

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