Group: Men's Club

Created: 2011/12/31, Members: 252, Messages: 6838

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being noticeable

centraldistrict
centraldistrict
Posts: 7
Joined: 2006/02/11
United States
2006/02/12, 08:52 PM
how can i get girls to notice me?
Nyxtikal
Nyxtikal
Posts: 268
Joined: 2005/09/20
United States
2006/02/12, 11:31 PM
talk to them
Lonegirl
Lonegirl
Posts: 446
Joined: 2002/11/13
Canada
2006/02/13, 11:47 AM
smile, be nice, say hi, compliment them....you are at an age where girls can sometimes be fickle ....secretly someone may like you and want to talk to you but with their friends they giggle, laugh and ignore you....if there is someone in particular you like catch her eye in class and smile at her...if she smiles and quickly looks away she may be just shy....go say hi to her :)
Mojo_67
Mojo_67
Posts: 1,299
Joined: 2003/09/23
United States
2006/02/13, 05:48 PM
Gasoline and matches...of course I'm just kidding.

Try noticing them.

If you stand around waiting for them to notice you, you may be standing there awhile, unless of course your all that and a bag of chips, and let's face it, most of us aren't.

Dress casual, keep yourself well-groomed and just be real, then approach and don't be afraid to get knocked back a few times. If you don't risk being rejected, your not gonna get accepted.

Your only 13, take it easy, your starting an adventure that I promise you, will never be boring. No matter if you find someone and stay with them forever or you spend each week with someone new...boring it will never be.

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Seize the day!
Nyxtikal
Nyxtikal
Posts: 268
Joined: 2005/09/20
United States
2006/02/14, 12:20 AM
being ready for setbacks is good advice......ive taken my fair share of denials, but after the first few they dont bother you at all anymore
gangstershoes
gangstershoes
Posts: 641
Joined: 2005/05/27
United States
2006/02/14, 03:12 PM
be yourself, and treat the girls you are interested in the same as you would the girls that you consider friends. Be playful and avoid being clingy and unconfident in yourself. 13 is young, so you have plenty of time to figure things out.
texrated
texrated
Posts: 12
Joined: 2006/05/15
United States
2006/05/19, 05:27 PM
I think women loves a guy with a since of humor...If you can make a woman laught you are halfway there...Buy the a newspaper memorize the funny pages, and go for it....
slorbets
slorbets
Posts: 205
Joined: 2006/04/07
Canada
2006/05/24, 07:35 PM
I think the same goes for both men and women. When you are trying hard to find someone, it seems nobody is available, or you cannot get the attention. But when you forget about actaully trying to find someone, and focus on enjoying your live and doing things you love, and spending time with others, when you least expect it you will find someone!

When people try to hard to get noticed, it just looks silly. Be yourself, enjoy your life. Eventually you will find someone whom you want to share yourself with!
mysticgraces
mysticgraces
Posts: 422
Joined: 2006/02/21
Canada
2006/05/26, 03:21 PM
BE yourself!and treat the girls with respect!~