Group: I am overweight or obese

Created: 2012/01/01, Members: 381, Messages: 6449

Being overweight is a common trait these days and there is not enough help out there. Find out how you can shed those pounds and improve yourself from within.

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MomNeedsToLose
MomNeedsToLose
Posts: 2
Joined: 2004/10/11
United States
2004/10/11, 09:21 PM
I am a 31 year old stay at home mom who needs to lose about 60lbs. :(

I have never had a weight problem until the birth of my second child. I have had two c-sections and just now feel as if I am finally healing. I was very suprised a few days ago to actually feel myself sucking in my stomach which I have not felt in a long while due to such weak stomach muscles, but it really encouraged me to try and lose this weight.

I have never exercised before and was one of those girls who other girls hated because I could eat whatever I wanted. Well I am no longer so fortunate.:laugh: I have always been a big eater and I don't think I even know what a real portion of food is supposed to be.I have really bad habits and usually skip breakfast and lunch and then get really hungry at dinner time. I take care of my family and feed them really healthy and fresh meals, but just do not take care of myself in turn.
I would appreciate any starting out advice or any tips on getting started.
I am doing the home program since I really do not have time to go to the gym.
asimmer
asimmer
Posts: 8,201
Joined: 2003/01/07
United States
2004/10/12, 09:50 PM
Hi! Welcome to ft!
You are every bit as important as your family when it comes to feeding yourself right. If you need to - look at it this way: the better care you take of yourself, the better you will be able to take care of your family.

Get started gradually, ease into your ruotine and enjoy the time by yourself. My daughter seemed to adjust her wake-up schedule depending on when I got up early to exercise. Finally we reached an agreement where she would sit on the couch and watch while I worked out. (My favorite quote , while I was doing a denise Austin workout video "Why does everyone have to do what SHE says?")(My thoughts exactly, baby).

A portion of protein is about the size and thickness of a deck of cards, a slice of bread should be about the size of a CD, a serving of grains/carbs should be the size of your closed fist, and veggies are basically unlimited, as long as they aren't smothered in fatty sauces.

Did you treat ourself exceptionally well when pregnant/ I did. I have tried to figure out why I am not worth that much care and nutrition when I am not pregnant - the answer is - i am!!! Take care of yourself!!! Work exercise into your routine and find exercise you enjoy!!!! eat healthy, nourishing foods!

Don't skip meals! It will slow your metabolism - get into the habit of eating a healthy snack/meal every three hours. This will keep your metabolism up and your energy levels stable.

remember - its okay to fall down, as long as you get back up again.

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"Achieving worthwhile goals requires a consistent investment of time and effort on your part....The rewards you receive will be in direct proportion to the consistent effort you put forth."
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