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arondaballer Posts: 1,054 Joined: 2003/06/14	2003/06/30, 05:00 PM Hey, I went on a trip last week and found out this chick my age wanted me......well, to say the least, I wasn't so interested. But me and her sister got along rrreaalll well. We talked a lot on the bus, and meet eyes often and I've caught her starin at me sometimes(in the good way lol)........well, the only problem is, she's older and I don't know what to do about it (I'm 15 and she's 18 haha) but I think there could be somethin there...do you think I should say somethin to her or just let it go? -------------- If Satan ever tries to remind you of your past, just tell him of his future!
padua Posts: 219 Joined: 2003/02/17	2003/06/30, 05:11 PM the way i see it age really doesn't matter.....if you are mature enough to either handle having a fun or serious relationship then go for it....she thinks your old enough....,,enjoy , be smart and stay safe ...
gwindalyn Posts: 434 Joined: 2003/01/15	2003/06/30, 07:14 PM I agree that age doesn't matter to a point. However, there comes a point where it does matter. Firstly, does she know how old you are. Secondly, what are the laws in your state? In some states, certain portions of a relationship (i.e. intimate actions) would be considered statutory rape in this situation. -------------- ~Jennifer http://www.gwindalyn.com If you dont stand for something, you will fall for anything.
tarab21 Posts: 508 Joined: 2003/03/31	2003/06/30, 07:35 PM good point gwindalyn, sometimes we don't think about it when the woman is the older one.
Carivan Posts: 8,542 Joined: 2002/01/20	2003/06/30, 09:49 PM When I was 19, I, nah...nevermind!
arondaballer Posts: 1,054 Joined: 2003/06/14	2003/06/30, 09:53 PM thanks, I'm not sure what the law is, but we both have christian morals and do not want to do anything but kissing outside of marriage. I mean I still haven't talked to her about this as you know, but I'm just not sure what she's gonna say. -------------- If Satan ever tries to remind you of your past, just tell him of his future!
tarab21 Posts: 508 Joined: 2003/03/31	2003/06/30, 10:58 PM haha @ Carivan
padua Posts: 219 Joined: 2003/02/17	2003/06/30, 11:45 PM i really don't see anything wrong with a three year difference yes he is under age but i don't see what is wrong....what will be wrong if she was 35 or if he was a she and she was a he and she was 15 and he was 35 that's wrong..i don't know i'mout of this ...this question is more of an opinion thought..there are many states that really don't look at cases like this.
moruc2504 Posts: 1 Joined: 2003/07/13	2003/07/13, 02:29 PM I think if you're really serious about this girl and you want to have a long term relationship with her you should go for it. The reasons for this is that men live shorter than women do so in the long run, she'll be happy that you weren't older, and second if you're in high school, you should know that high school relationships don't last, so I would not get all worked up over this girl. Just have fun with her.
arondaballer Posts: 1,054 Joined: 2003/06/14	2003/07/26, 07:19 PM Well, thanks everyone for your opinions, but the other night, I was talkin to her and she started tellin me how she felt and she feels the exact same way as I do!! I was sooo happy, and we've been talkin a lot lately. -------------- If Satan ever tries to remind you of your past, just tell him of his future!
richardjst Posts: 410 Joined: 2002/07/13	2003/07/27, 12:58 PM Some advice an old friend once told me....."If it works, work it!" -------------- If hard work and persistence were the keys to success, most people would opt to pick the lock.~Dick
Candy21 Posts: 5 Joined: 2004/04/22	2004/04/23, 03:44 PM holla boos!
Candy21 Posts: 5 Joined: 2004/04/22	2004/04/23, 03:44 PM holla boos!
GOWAR Posts: 361 Joined: 2001/10/24	2004/04/23, 09:48 PM are you sure she's not just being really friendly and flirty? If she isnt ur lucky!
GOWAR Posts: 361 Joined: 2001/10/24	2004/04/23, 09:55 PM are you sure she's not just being really friendly and flirty? If she isnt ur lucky!