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fsdsk Posts: 959 Joined: 2003/11/30	2004/07/23, 06:56 AM Dude, you owe me big time!
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/23, 06:44 AM lol yeah a sympathy date might be ok lol. hoe about it pritchard? :big_smile:
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/07/22, 03:37 PM i will never type in the female forum again, i was asking for trouble:) -------------- The curse of the poo foot!!! A.D.F.
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/05, 07:13 AM i've been seeing this guy for about a month and everything seemed fine until the last 2 weeks. I haven't seen him. He won't phone or ask me to out or anything. I phoned him and he said he was busy. Today he said we'll go out and once again i got stood up. I went out last night and i was talking to this guy and he bought me a drink, we got really talking and he's very cute. He asked me on a date and i said that i was taken. He gave me his number anyway. I don't know what do do...Dump my bf and go with new guy? HELP! :(
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/05, 07:15 AM i just realised i put this in the wrong column sorry!
dfly411 Posts: 1,352 Joined: 2004/03/04	2004/07/05, 07:43 AM Sounds like you ARE taken...for a fool by your current fella. Dump this guy millenia, call the new one and move on to the greener pastures.
fsdsk Posts: 959 Joined: 2003/11/30	2004/07/05, 09:13 AM You snooze, you lose...dump the previous and go for the new!
the_cupcake Posts: 348 Joined: 2004/06/16	2004/07/05, 10:42 AM sweetie, if you have a boyfriend, he better be giving his daily loving, hugs and kisses and stuff to you, a little message on your machine, a short email won't take a minute and if he doesn't do his duty then he's obviously taking you for granted. Call your current man and talk to him, tell him how you feel about him treating you that way, and if he won't deal, diss him. There are a lot of guys around. No one should take you for granted. but hey, if he stood you up consistently, girl...go with the new guy. I hate men who bail out on their date, it's so..as***lish. meh. am I beginning to sound bitter? :big_smile: -------------- The best victories are won not by adversity and brute force. Learn the enemy and overcome it. -cupcake-
Vedakathryn Posts: 1,585 Joined: 2004/05/28	2004/07/05, 02:06 PM You don't have to wait around for anyone - you may miss the good guy, you could call the b/f and tell him what you are feeling or just move on, your call, but either way, most likely you know deep within how he is making you feel and that you deserve better than being stood up, so stand up for yourself and you will persevere! -------------- Veda MISERY IS OPTIONAL ***When you are up to your ears in trouble, try using the part that is not submerged. ***The difference between a dream and a goal is a plan. HAVE A GREAT DAY!
QuesTix Posts: 33 Joined: 2004/06/30	2004/07/05, 02:27 PM Give your current bf a chance, Millenia, maybe he has a reason for acting like a pain in the ass. Relationships won't always be patient, maybe he just needed a break, or had a zit or something. Try asking him what's up, and telling him another guy's into you, and that if he keeps this up, he's going to lose you.
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/05, 04:46 PM ok well i phoned him and he said that hes been seeing girls from the internet. so obviously i dumped him and accepted the date! i feel completly used but i guess i should learn from this :(
the_cupcake Posts: 348 Joined: 2004/06/16	2004/07/05, 08:10 PM seeing girls ? from the internet too? man...he sucks big time. If I didn't want a particular man, I'd totally cross the lot off my list. blech.:angry: -------------- The best victories are won not by adversity and brute force. Learn the enemy and overcome it. -cupcake-
DeeTee Posts: 166 Joined: 2004/06/09	2004/07/05, 09:34 PM Can't live with 'em, can't shoot 'em.
DeeTee Posts: 166 Joined: 2004/06/09	2004/07/05, 09:44 PM Ugh, apologies for previous post. Sometimes I say things without thinking and pay for it later. On reflection that wasn't very funny and if I offended anyone Im sorry. Donna
howdiekat Posts: 1,345 Joined: 2003/05/22	2004/07/05, 09:56 PM i think you should start dating girls. -------------- i wish you ill, ice-t.
DeeTee Posts: 166 Joined: 2004/06/09	2004/07/05, 11:31 PM Ahhh, but see bhardy irrationality is in the eyes of the beholder. For some people that would make complete sense. Females know what a female wants, men on the other hand rarely have a clue. Although they do try hard :big_smile: :love: Donna
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/06, 06:26 AM It just makes you feel a bit less apecial when he goes with "women" off the net. he came up to my house last night with a bunch of flowers. I told him i can't be with him after sleeping with women off the net.He told me to think about it. I mean i dont actually how many women . He could have an std or something eww :(
the_cupcake Posts: 348 Joined: 2004/06/16	2004/07/06, 08:54 AM Donna, you are so right! Men rarely do have a clue. Women SO rule. HAH! ============ Quoting from DeeTee: Ahhh, but see bhardy irrationality is in the eyes of the beholder. For some people that would make complete sense. Females know what a female wants, men on the other hand rarely have a clue. Although they do try hard :big_smile: :love: Donna ============= -------------- The best victories are won not by adversity and brute force. Learn the enemy and overcome it. -cupcake-
fsdsk Posts: 959 Joined: 2003/11/30	2004/07/06, 10:01 AM Hey, lets not begin the men bashing. Some of us are ok you know. Now with that being said, it seems the attractiveness of the women on this site seems to be increasing. Howdie - I think you should give Goodoldtex a chance! -------------- There is no substitute for hard work
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/06, 02:40 PM Im not bashing men at all....lets just say ive never been with a guy who taken me out before! ...i can sure pick em...are american men different?
howdiekat Posts: 1,345 Joined: 2003/05/22	2004/07/06, 03:31 PM fsdsk, i don't know if tex could handle me :big_smile: oh and you're right about the women on this site getting more attractive. that's why tex and i are starting a club for the devastatingly good-looking. i am vp recruitment. picture applications are required for membership. and millenia, SOME american men are different. every country has their assholes, just sounds like scotland has an unequally large share of the world's population of them. any guy who doesn't take you out is a total chotch. -------------- i wish you ill, ice-t. ---------- margarine is a liar who announces, \"i am butter!\"
goodoldtex Posts: 564 Joined: 2004/01/25	2004/07/06, 05:03 PM I couldnt handle you? oh no you didn't just challenge my capability of handling such a caliber of woman. Now granted you're one hell of a woman, whos to say that this cowboy can't saddle up to the challenge :big_smile: fsdsk i'll need your paypal info so that the deal is settled, nice approach...she didn't buy it though. j/k howdie's right about the whole chotch thing. There are plenty of good guys out there...granted they're harder to get ahold of...but you'll figure it out...
Vedakathryn Posts: 1,585 Joined: 2004/05/28	2004/07/06, 10:28 PM I'm sorry you are having a difficult time and hope that you find someone that can respect you...sending smiles for miles in hopes of a better day! ============ Quoting from millenia: ok well i phoned him and he said that hes been seeing girls from the internet. so obviously i dumped him and accepted the date! i feel completly used but i guess i should learn from this :( ============= -------------- Veda MISERY IS OPTIONAL ***When you are up to your ears in trouble, try using the part that is not submerged. ***The difference between a dream and a goal is a plan. HAVE A GREAT DAY!
the_cupcake Posts: 348 Joined: 2004/06/16	2004/07/07, 12:11 AM am not bashing men really. just a general observation lol. And millenia, howdie's right, every country has its fair share of dorks. just remember that you can't find the universal definition of "perfection" in one male/female person. hmmm....tex and you kinda look good together though...:love: ============ Quoting from fsdsk: Hey, lets not begin the men bashing. Some of us are ok you know. Now with that being said, it seems the attractiveness of the women on this site seems to be increasing. Howdie - I think you should give Goodoldtex a chance! ============= -------------- The best victories are won not by adversity and brute force. Learn the enemy and overcome it. -cupcake-
DeeTee Posts: 166 Joined: 2004/06/09	2004/07/07, 02:36 AM I wasn't men bashing either :( I did say you guys try hard. What would the world be like if we were all the same? We need opposites in everything, gender and personality. Donna
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/07, 05:41 AM Yeah it does seem scottish men are a little ...different lol..i can't let this get me down though i will just hasve to keep searching for a nice guy..Thank you all for helping me out! date with the musician today whohoo wish me luck!:big_smile:
phimugirl1 Posts: 267 Joined: 2004/06/22	2004/07/07, 07:59 AM Best of luck with your date today!!! I hope it's a lot nicer than what you've been dealt in the past. Have fun! :) -------------- Do just once what others say you can't do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again. James R. Cook
jonathanweaver Posts: 576 Joined: 2004/06/14	2004/07/07, 09:36 AM ============ Quoting from millenia: Yeah it does seem scottish men are a little ...different lol..i can't let this get me down though i will just hasve to keep searching for a nice guy..Thank you all for helping me out! date with the musician today whohoo wish me luck!:big_smile: ============= LOL You know the difference between Rod Stewart and a Scotsman, right? Rod Stewart says, "Hey you! Get off of my cloud!" While the Scotsman says, "Hey, McCloud, get off of my ewe!" Just playing. Good luck on the date. Have a good time and be home by 11:00. (Sorry. "Just kidding! Not really." - Quote from Dodgeball) -------------- I will never grow up, just old. Jonathan
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/08, 09:48 AM Ok date went well but he seemed a little clingy...lol He bought me flowers though!!!
phimugirl1 Posts: 267 Joined: 2004/06/22	2004/07/08, 11:56 AM Clingy as in he already feels like you're the one he can't live without? Or clingy in the aspect that he was too touchy/feely? -------------- Do just once what others say you can't do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again. James R. Cook
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/09, 07:08 AM Erm well i met one of my friends and hes a guy and he got really jealous ....:(
phimugirl1 Posts: 267 Joined: 2004/06/22	2004/07/09, 08:15 AM Erm well i met one of my friends and hes a guy and he got really jealous .... Not a good sign! Move to the next one! Good luck! -------------- Do just once what others say you can't do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again. James R. Cook
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/09, 01:11 PM OK!! :big_smile:...NEXT!!
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/11, 08:09 AM Wow i went out for a drink and 4 guys offered me a drink. One of them said "nice legs do you workout?" I thought he was being a sleeze so i said.."try freetrainers.com" they might be able to help you! :big_smile:
phimugirl1 Posts: 267 Joined: 2004/06/22	2004/07/11, 08:33 AM I thought he was being a sleeze so i said.."try freetrainers.com" they might be able to help you! LOL, Millenia!!! :laugh::laugh: -------------- Do just once what others say you can't do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again. James R. Cook
Reddy Posts: 597 Joined: 2003/09/11	2004/07/16, 05:20 PM ============ Quoting from millenia: Wow i went out for a drink and 4 guys offered me a drink. One of them said "nice legs do you workout?" I thought he was being a sleeze so i said.."try freetrainers.com" they might be able to help you! :big_smile: ============= hey it would be cool if he posted here ;) -------------- Reddy All people smile in the same language
princesslodgey Posts: 1,748 Joined: 2004/02/21	2004/07/18, 04:43 AM Sorry, getting into this post late. Millenia, you are right, there are lots of idiot men in Scotland. I married the only one I found who was ok. There are others out there I believe, so don't give up, but definitely don't settle for idiots who take you for granted or are jealous.
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/07/21, 12:18 PM i got into this post even later, just wanted to say, millenia, english men arent as much of nobs as scotts. i ahve scottish family, and i dont really like them, they womanise, but i on the other hand am available for you any time, ill bring you flowers and everything. -------------- The curse of the poo foot!!! A.D.F.
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/07/21, 12:51 PM well, it was worth a try, thanks alot bhardy, now shes never gonna go out with me:(. j/k :big_smile: -------------- The curse of the poo foot!!! A.D.F.
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/21, 01:22 PM lol how old are you pritchard?
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/07/21, 02:45 PM 16, but dont let my immature online escapades fool you im really mature:big_smile: -------------- The curse of the poo foot!!! A.D.F.
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/07/21, 02:52 PM i should have quit while i was ahead, i.e. not posted at all... -------------- The curse of the poo foot!!! A.D.F.
	2004/07/21, 02:53 PM A man's gotta know his limitations. -------------- Foolish consistancies are the hobgoblins of small minds. Charlie
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/07/21, 03:00 PM i wish i knew mine about 6 hours ago. -------------- The curse of the poo foot!!! A.D.F.
	2004/07/21, 03:19 PM Prichard, you're my boy. Millenia you could do much worse than my boy prichard. He's an excellent student and I'm sure he'd be willing to learn in any training situation you offered. -------------- Foolish consistancies are the hobgoblins of small minds. Charlie
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/07/21, 03:25 PM thats what i need charlie, a good training. -------------- The curse of the poo foot!!! A.D.F.
	2004/07/21, 03:31 PM Charlie "the love doctor" solves the problem. Millenia, the balls in your court. -------------- Foolish consistancies are the hobgoblins of small minds. Charlie
Pritchard Posts: 1,212 Joined: 2004/03/02	2004/07/21, 03:42 PM thanks charlie, what would i do if, i dunno, someone kidnapped you? -------------- The curse of the poo foot!!! A.D.F.
millenia Posts: 133 Joined: 2004/04/03	2004/07/21, 04:04 PM lol charming but maybe im not your type pritchard. and i live in Scotland..not sure where you live. lol :big_smile:
	2004/07/21, 04:08 PM I tried....you can lead the kiddies to water but you just can't make them drink. -------------- Foolish consistancies are the hobgoblins of small minds. Charlie

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